Welcome to Dee's Online Memorial
11/19/2001
In Attendence to Dee's Oneline Memorial where:
Rev. Lisa
Jodi
MsP - LisaMarie
Aengus - Tony
Sabre
PeterPorkr
Drkangel2k1 - Charlene
Jim
Hbk4Life - Brandon
Brian
Kcasey57
Bodycountt9
Angela Maurer
Rose
<Rev Lisa> I just want to go over a few things. These rooms kick
you out if you do not
speak for a while so please just hit the letter K to let us know you
are there
<Jodi> good to know for little miss quiet over here
<Rev Lisa> This is going to be very nondenominational so any expressions
of deity are more. Than welcome at any time. I am just going to do a
very short service and then we are all going to say a few words and
I have someone who I have asked to speak as to how she met Dee as well.
<PeterPorkr> (((((HUGS)))))
<MsPhenom> ((((Peter))))
<Drkangel2k1> ((((peter)))))
<Drkangel2k1> (((((all))))))
<Rev Lisa> I want everyone to try to use the screen of their mind
because this is on the internet
<PeterPorkr> What? No hugs from Tony? I won't hurt you with mu
hooves. LOL
<Rev Lisa> and lets think of some visualization Dee will be cremated
- so you can picture her either in a beautiful ornamental urn or as
she was in real life
<Aengus> lol sorry
<Rev Lisa> that is your choice
<Aengus> ((HUGGS))Peter
<Rev Lisa> On our altar with be boughs of evergreen and flowers
<HBK4LIFE> Hi
<PeterPorkr> Hi Brandon
<Rev Lisa> We all contributed to some beautiful roses that are
up in the front Pink for her love for others Yellow for her friendship
<HBK4LIFE> Hi Stephen
<Rev Lisa> Red for the hard work she put into the forest. The
evergreen of course means that she will never die - not in our hearts
nor in our minds
<MsPhenom> :::starts to tear up::::
<Rev Lisa> She is with us now - because we have our memories.
I WOULD LIKE TO WELCOME YOU to the memorial service of our friend Denise
Hicks
<PeterPorkr> Hands MsP a tissue. Join the club
<Rev Lisa> she was known to most of us as Dee
<MsPhenom> ::smiles and Peter:::Thank you
<Rev Lisa> the Undertaker refered to her as DeeDee in the wheelchair
none of us knew she even used a wheelchair
<Jodi> I'm gonna need one of those tissues please
<Rev Lisa> as she never ever complained about what cards she had
been dealt
<HBK4LIFE> We had plans to meet in San Jose when the WWF was around,
but never got around to it.
<MsPhenom> ::hands Jodi a tissue:::
<Jodi> ty
<Rev Lisa> She had serious health complications from birth but
never took control of a conversation to make those of us more physically
healthy guilty. We gather here now
To bid farewell to our friend Denise Hicks our Dee who must travel
far. With her are the blessing from her God and from yours and of her
good friends who are here some who are here in spirit. We are all with
Dee with her
<MsPhenom> ::crys silently:::
<Rev Lisa> as she travels to the beyond. There is a reason for
being here
<PeterPorkr> ::cries not so silently::
<Rev Lisa> and being here in this world and in this life sometimes
we wonder why. Why can our God make a person have to use a wheelchair
or suffer between hospital visits? Where was God? .... with Dee and
in Dee we saw it as she would help us talk to us give us encouragement
because she intimately knew suffering and could share in yours. She
knew happiness and could share in yours. She had the gift and she also
beared a burden a little harder than most of us have
<MsPhenom> Whispers:::Yes she did::::
<Rev Lisa> In this world and in this life there is also a reason
for leaving. When the purposes of life are done. We are grieving because
we miss her and miss her we will so very much. But remember she is finally
free of all the pain - the physical pain she bore without complaint.
She fulfilled her purpose to each and everyone of us as a friend
<kcasey57> thanks all
<Rev Lisa> a confidante she was there. Yes, it is a time we all
are going to say it is not fair! And as the archangel Michael said Who
shall know the mind of God Who can be his counselor We dont know why
she was taken right now and that is not why we are here not to grieve
not to cry
<kcasey57> dee's other half is here and so is lisher's dees friend
<Rev Lisa> but to celebrate a woman who loved us all so much.
We can only say - that God knows something we dont. She left this life
with so many friends and a man she loved she leaves behind her little
Iggy
<MsPhenom> ::::crys loudly:::
<Rev Lisa> but she also leaves behind the pain and the wheelchair.
Her soul is now beyond that pain
<MsPhenom> ::Amen to that:::
<Drkangel2k1> Amen twice
<Rev Lisa> the need to get help for physical needs. She now has
time to pause to rest
to wait for those who are loved by her. That is true ---- so many of
us fear death we hate to talk about it
<MsPhenom> ::looks up to the night sky:::
<Rev Lisa> Now we have our Dee waiting for us and most importantly
She will WALK toward each one of us when it is our time and hug us Imagine
that sight!
<Jodi> ***smiles*****
<Rev Lisa> The world beyond is a land
<MsPhenom> Smiles
<Rev Lisa> of eternal summer, of joy
<Drkangel2k1> what a wonderful sight
<Rev Lisa> and happiness it is truly just like Dee over there.
You may call it heaven
nirvana, summerland, it is now Dee's home and it knows, and she knows
no pain. She can even watch her wrestling now without having to buy
tickets.
<MsPhenom> ***Smiles****
<Rev Lisa> She is far from the cares of this world she is happy
and she is finally free of those physical chains that bound her. I am
now going to ask Jodi first to introduce herself and say a few words.
<kcasey57> that is so true
<Jodi> I'll try to do this briefly....... hard to wipe tears and
type
<Rev Lisa> ((hugs))
<MsPhenom> (((Jodi))
<Jodi> I am Jodi, I was married to Mark for almost 10 years. I
never got to meet Dee in person. I rarely went to California for shows
but we did meet here.... shortly after my divorce. I had a favor to
ask, and didn't know who or really how to.... but I found Dee..... and
she did help me with my problem, never telling me of all of her own
problems we chatted almost daily for many months she never complained
she was always upbeat and always had a smile for me and then when another
friend of hers was in need she directed her to me hoping I could help
her over a year later we did help each other and Dee quietly backed
out of my life we didn't speak as much we checked on each other occassionally
but I think she did what was needed most.... got 2 women together who
needed friendship and understanding. I know that Mark took extra time
whenever he was in her area
<MsPhenom> :::crys more:::
<Jodi> the one humbling thing about Mark was his care of his handicapped
fans
<MsPhenom> ****Smiles****
<Jodi> children more so than older people, but Dee worked her
way in with him somehow.
<Jodi> smiling
<MsPhenom> I bet she did
<Jodi> so as much as she loved wrestling and her Undertaker,
she made a special place in his heart as well
<MsPhenom> :::tears streaming down face:::
<Jodi> and I just want to thank her now, because I don't think
I ever did before for always listening to me, helping me when I asked
without question..and for introducing me to someone who has become a
very close friend
<Rev Lisa> Thank you so much for joining us and sharing
<MsPhenom> ((((Jodi))))
<kcasey57> well I do know she touched a lot of lives here..
<PeterPorkr> I'm out of tissues. I'm just holding my head over
a bucket.
<Rev Lisa> My favorite story of Mark and Dee is the second time
we went to a signing I was determined to get an autograph personal autograph
for Dee. The rules are from WWF. I was there for that that you can not
ask for signed autographs I told him I wanted one for me and Lisa and
he signed - I tapped my fingers on the table and said and make this
one out for Dee asked without question.. the second time we went to
a signing I was determined to get an autograph
<MsPhenom> I was there for that
<Rev Lisa> She is a woman in California in a wheelchair. He said
Dee Dee??? and immediately signed! The promoter just was shocked!
<Rev Lisa> hehehehe
<PeterPorkr> SMILES
<HBK4LIFE> That was really nice
<MsPhenom> We did it more then once though
<Rev Lisa> Ms P do you want to share?
<MsPhenom> always making sure Dee got her pictures
<MsPhenom> Well, I met Dee years ago on the net. Through wrestling
of course
<kcasey57> hey guys I have to go even though I don't want to..please
let AmytheaRose know I was here... even though her body is no longer
with us her spirit and smiles are..
<MsPhenom> We kept in contact once a day or so through the years
<Rev Lisa> Thank you
<MsPhenom> We shared our problems and yes, I knew of Dee's problems.
But, as promised I kept them a secert from everyone. Dee was always
with a smile and delight. Her best time was role playing on the net.
She felt she could catch the world. I thank Dee for her friendship.
And yes, we took her on a cyber ghost hunt I will miss her deeply but
I know she is looking down right now and smiling at all of us
<brian> i remember that :::smiles:::
<Rev Lisa> Dark?
<Drkangel2k1> Yes
<Drkangel2k1> thanks
<MsPhenom> You have anything you want to say
<Drkangel2k1> I met Dee many years ago right before I net MsP
<MsPhenom> **smiles**
<Drkangel2k1> She had always been a good friend to me even when
I did not deserve her to be. Dee was on loan to us and now we have to
wait to see her again. She cared when no one else in the world did and
never complained
<Jodi> true
<MsPhenom> So true
<Dakangel2k1> I loved her like a sister. She was my rock and I
tried to be hers, but she was so much stronger than me
<Rose> Good evening all ((HUGS))
<PeterPorkr> ((HUGS))
<Jodi> she was stronger than most of us
<Drkangel2k1> I know she is there watching and helping the best
she can. She would do what ever it took to help even know her life was
not so great
<Jim> see loves everybody
<Drkangel2k1> The light Dee gave off will be missed, and the world
will not be the same again
<MsPhenom> Agree with you Dark
<PeterPorkr> me2
<Jodi> and me
<Drkangel2k1> I will miss her. Thanks Dee for giving me the gift
of being your friend.
<Rev Lisa> Aengus?
<Drkangel2k1> I also knew her problems but never thought of her
as being in a wheel chair
<Jim> but her light shines in everyone of our hearts. cryingggg''''''''''''''''
<Drkangel2k1> I often forgot all about it.
<Aengus> better pass right now, notes keeping me busy, just enough
that I will miss her I never knew until yesterday
<Rev Lisa> Peter?
<Drkangel2k1> I will miss her and I love her, I know she would
want us to go on and be strong for her.
<PeterPorkr> I remember the time that my hoof was stuck under
the boulder by the cave and Dee used her chair to free me
<MsPhenom> ***giggles***
<PeterPorkr> LOL JK
<PeterPorkr> She was a great lady and I miss her lots Our loss
is heavens gain
<Drkangel2k1> She will also be missed in the dungeon
<Rev Lisa> Sabre?
<MsPhenom> So true Peter
<Drkangel2k1> it wont be the same.
<Jim> she was more then i could ever know
<Sabre> I first knew Dee through message boards, group chats and
mailing lists then the Forest came together and she would always help
any way she could I will miss her on the message board too, I just miss
her. Now she's up there waiting for us when it's our time, so we won't
be alone
<Rose> me too body
<Drkangel2k1> ((((((((( hugs to all )))))))))))))
<Jim> but she will always be with us no matter what
<MsPhenom> (((All)))
<Sabre> and she's here in everyone's heart
<PeterPorkr> (((((GROUP HUGS)))))
<Rose> (((((((GROUP HUG)))))
<Rev Lisa> HBK?
<HBK4LIFE> Well I did not know her as well as some here, but
she was definitely a friend.
<Drkangel2k1> she is not just in my heart, she was part of my
heart.
<Rev Lisa> HBK she would be honored that you are here
<HBK4LIFE> I live about a two in a half hour drive south of San
Jose. We talked about possibly getting together in San Jose when the
WWF was there but never did
<Rose> HBK< where do you live??
<HBK4LIFE> Central CA
<HBK4LIFE> We had this ongoing joke between us.
<Drkangel2k1> You all know Dee is here with us right?
<Rose> I will be there thur, Fri, will be at Dee's memorial driving
from Santa Maria
<HBK4LIFE> I was joking with her how she might not like me when
I am in the WWF if I have to "attack" Mark.
<MsPhenom> Yes, Dark
<Rose> yes I do Drkangel
<MsPhenom> I remember her telling me about that HBK
<Jim> and she will never let us be alone ever
<HBK4LIFE> Since I knew Mark was her favorite, and she knew who
my favorite is
<Rev Lisa> Jim?
<Drkangel2k1> Jim, you are so right....she never did let us be
alone and she won't start now.
:-)
<MsPhenom> Jim would you like to share?
<HBK4LIFE> I told her she would know who I was when she saw me
because I would be the new guy running down to help my favorite person
<MsPhenom> lol, HBK
<Jim> dee will always hold us all 4 ever
<Rev Lisa> Body count?
<Bodycountt9>yes rev lisa?
<MsPhenom> Would you like to share?
<Rev Lisa> BODY WOULD YOU like to say something about DEE?
<Drkangel2k1> I MISS MY DEE.
<Rev Lisa> Name in use?
<Drkangel2k1> ((((((( hugs ))))))))))
<Bodycountt9> I may not have known her very well but when i posted
on a board with her she gave me a great welcome I will never forget
<HBK4LIFE> One time she said she would try to get me backstage
with her
<MsPhenom> Always the Welcome wagon she was
<Jim> same here
<Bodycountt9> yes she was
<Rev Lisa> or if anyone else has anything to say?
<Bodycountt9> I am so glad she got to meet Taker, she more than
deserves that privelege
<Rev Lisa> I would like you all to picture a fir tree in front
of you. The evergreen does grow and prosper both in winter and in summer
year after year
<HBK4LIFE> I have gotten in some heated discussions with people,
but I was just joking around with her
<Rev Lisa> so also will Dee's soul continue
<Sabre> her strength is an inspiration
<Rev Lisa> from life to life to life. Growing ever stronger, wiser
and richer. Dee believed in past lives as many of you know and I know
she will be back again and again she will help others
<Jodi> **gets more tissues**
<Rev Lisa> but for now may the fairies, the guardian angels,
the nature spirits, and those who have gone before you. Escort you,
Dee, with honor to your new home
<Drkangel2k1> She will be helping others from the other side
<Rev Lisa> Please repeat after me
<MsPhenom> Rest In Peace Dee
<Bodycountt9> rest in peace dee
<PeterPorkr> Rest in peace Dee
<Drkangel2k1> Rest in peace Dee and be free
<Sabre> Rest in peace Dee
<Jim> i have know dee for 13 years and she loved all people and
animals
<HBK4LIFE> Rest In Peace Dee
<Jodi> rest in peace Dee
<Rev Lisa> and may perpetual light shine upon you
<Jim> rest in peace dee
<MsPhenom> And may perpetual light shine upon you
<Bodycountt9> and may perpetual light shine on you
<PeterPorkr> Yeah, shine that spotlight so she can see
<HBK4LIFE> And may perpetual light shine upon you
<Sabre> and may perpetual light shine upon thee
<Drkangel2k1> And may the perpetual light shine on you
<Rev Lisa> Rest in peace Dee
<HBK4LIFE> Rest In Peace Dee
<Rev Lisa> and know you will always be remembered and loved
<Drkangel2k1> Rest in peace Dee
<MsPhenom> Rest in Peace Dee
<Bodycountt9> rest in peace dee
<Sabre> Rest in Peace Dee
<PeterPorkr> Much love to DEE!!
<MsPhenom> And know you will always be remembered and loved
<Sabre> and know you will always be remembered and loved
<HBK4LIFE> And know you will always be remembered and loved
<Rev Lisa> Rest in peace Dee
<Bodycountt9> and know you will always be remembered and loved
<Drkangel2k1> I know you will always be remembered and loved
<MsPhenom> Rest in peace Dee
<HBK4LIFE> Rest In Peace Dee
<Drkangel2k1> Rest in peace Dee and be free
<Sabre> Rest in peace Dee
<PeterPorkr> Rest in peace DEE
<Rev Lisa> and may we meet again
<Bodycountt9>rest in peace dee
<MsPhenom> And may we meet again
<Drkangel2k1> and may we meet again
<Sabre> and may we meet again
<Rev Lisa> Thank you
<HBK4LIFE> And may we meet again
<Bodycountt9> and may we meet again
<MsPhenom> Thank you
<HBK4LIFE> thank you
<PeterPorkr> Oh, we'll meet again alright. She's saving me a seat
<Sabre> thank you
<Rev Lisa> now I just want you to remember that when you think
of Dee (no need to repeat now) think of her walking, as a fairy
<Jodi> **smiles**
<Rev Lisa> as an angel, as a being of light of beauty and of joy
<Drkangel2k1> May you run jump sing and feel pure love. Be free
my friend
<Rev Lisa> AMEN
<Bodycountt9> amen
<HBK4LIFE> Amen
<Jodi> AMEN
<Sabre> Amen
<Rose> amen
<PeterPorkr> amen
<Rev Lisa> and so mote it be!
<MsPhenom> Bless the Goddess
<Jim> amen
<Drkangel2k1> Amen
<Rev Lisa> Thank you all for coming
<MsPhenom> So mote it be
<Rev Lisa> I will be available for anyone who needs to just chat
if we wish we can have another service
<Jodi> wonderful job Rev Lisa and MsP
<Rev Lisa> in a month
<MsPhenom> Thank you Jodi and Hugs my friend
<Rev Lisa> and celebrate her newfound happiness
<Rev Lisa> Thank you so much Jodi
<PeterPorkr> Very nice job ladies. I bet Dee is smiling right
now
<Jodi> hugs back to you hun
<Drkangel2k1> Yes, a wonderful jub thank you for have this for
Dee
<Rev Lisa> It was the least we all could do for Dee
<HBK4LIFE> Yeah definitely
<Jodi> no thanks needed Lisa
<Jim> thanks to all of you for making this happen
<MsPhenom> We will put the service up on her memorial page we
are going to be doing for Dee
<Rev Lisa> We will be announcing a short service when we put
up the permanent memorial to our little phenom on the forest
<Drkangel2k1> ((((((( hugs to all)))))))))))))) and if you don't
here from me much blesings to you all
<Rev Lisa> She will never be forgotten
<Rev Lisa> Dark, why would we not hear from you?
<Rev Lisa> We will want to hear from you now more than ever
<Drkangel2k1> I would rather not explain now
<Rev Lisa> I think we all need each other
<Rev Lisa> Okay honey
<Rev Lisa> Rose, can you give us information on the funeral in
San Jose?
<Rose> absolutely
<Drkangel2k1> You are right we need each other, I could not talk
to anyone in the world like I could talk to Dee and I don't think I
ever will
<Rose> by the way jim, this is me, Mary
<Jim> there is nine
<Jim> there is none
<Drkangel2k1> Jim.........I wish you peace and be well
<Rose> well, she is still listening, i know she heard me last
night, and i was let know she heard me
<MsPhenom> Dee has touched so many lives in so many different
ways
<Drkangel2k1> I talked to her today,,,,that is why I am here,
I was not going to come
<Rev Lisa> I am glad you came Dark
<Jodi> me too Dark
<Rose> I am too
<PeterPorkr> Me 2 (((((HUGS)))))
<MsPhenom> Me too Dark, wouldn't have been the same without you
<Drkangel2k1> She is still helping me even know she is on the
other side. And I am sure others as well
<Drkangel2k1> Thanks...you don't know how much that means to me
to hear you say that. I am glad you did this for her and for all of
us
<Jim> her mom did not want to spend that much money so Dee will
be cre. and I will keep her with me
<MsPhenom> She was an Angel here on earth and now she truely
is an Angel in Summerland (heaven)
<Drkangel2k1> Don't get me started on her mom,,,I did not need
to hear that ugg
<Jodi> I just want to say thanks Ladies for asking me to speak.....
I have a little Taker that needs to get to bed :o)
<MsPhenom> (((Jodi))) and thanks
<Drkangel2k1> thanks for being here Jodi ((((((((hugs)))))))
<MsPhenom> Give hugs to little man for us (((((Jodi)))))
<PeterPorkr> ((((HUGS))))) Jodi. Nice to meet you.
<Jodi> (((((((hugs))))))))))))))
<Sabre> Hugs
<Jodi> will do MsP
<Jim> but i love her as you all do so she will not die in vian
<Jodi> thanx Peter...you too
<Rose> ((HUGS))to all,
<PeterPorkr> (((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))
(((((HUGS))))))rose
<Sabre> Hugs everyone
<Drkangel2k1> I have to go now. My daugher is looking at me like
she wants something.
<MsPhenom> Hugs to all of you and thank you for coming tonight
(((((((SABRE)))))
<Drkangel2k1> ((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))) to all and please
stay safe
<Rose> love and peace to all.......(((MsPhenom)))))
<Drkangel2k1> I don't want to loose anyone else
<PeterPorkr> rattles Saber (I always wanted to do that)
<MsPhenom> ((((Group hugs))))
<Sabre> lol
<MsPhenom> I must be going for now
<Drkangel2k1> ((((((((group hugs))))))))
<PeterPorkr> ((((HUGS)))) to MsP.
<Drkangel2k1> Jim, If you need someone to cry to feel free to
e-mail me. Drkangel2k1@aol
<Jim> you all take care and may you all find peace and dee in
your hearts bye
<PeterPorkr> Bye
<Drkangel2k1> Be well all. Blessings to you.
<PeterPorkr> Right back at'cha Angel blessing to you too dark
<Drkangel2k1> Thanks Rev Lisa for having me.
<PeterPorkr> Did you get all that Tony?
<PeterPorkr> I could repeat my moving tale of getting trapped
under the boulder if you want. LOL
<HBK4LIFE> LOL
<Sabre> lol
<Aengus> hehehe
<Aengus> got it
<Aengus> hey did you get my email peter?
<Rev Lisa> Kenny will give u the legal ways to sue
<Rev Lisa> us for your hoof
<PeterPorkr> LOL
<Aengus> eh is in a brace right now, will be ok
<Rev Lisa> lmao
<Sabre> heehee
<PeterPorkr> Did I tell you about the time Dee waxed my hooves
when I was sleeping and then pushed me out onto the frozen pond. That
girl was such a kidder
<Aengus> lol
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